Thursday, September 4, 2008

RUTHLESS COSMOPOLITAN: My Senior Prom and the Six-Day War

Here's my latest Ruthless Cosmopolitan column....suitable for use for the upcoming High Holy Days....





By Ruth Ellen Gruber (published 09/04/2008)

COLUMBUS, Ohio (JTA) – The High Holidays are a time for self-assessment, for looking back and preparing for the future.

A trip to Ohio this summer gave me the opportunity to look back over nearly a lifetime and consider some of the pathways that have brought me to the present.

The catalyst came near Columbus, when a distinguished-looking university professor greeted me at the door of his neat, Tudor-style house. He had metal-framed glasses, a salt-and-pepper moustache and still dark but thinning hair. Had I come across him anywhere else, he would have registered as a stranger.

But this was my old friend Richard, a high school classmate and Hebrew school companion – the boy, in fact, who had taken me to the senior prom.

We hadn’t seen each other in 40 years. Until a brief e-mail exchange two or three years ago, we hadn’t even been in touch during that time.

Such, however, is the enduring fascination of the road not taken that I made it a point to stop and reconnect between a lecture I gave at the American Jewish Committee in Cincinnati and a weekend with relatives in Akron.

We baby boomers sometimes seem obsessed with getting in touch with our past, or at least with reminders of our past. Just think of the oldies radio stations, the movie remakes of the TV shows of our childhood and the popularity of Web sites such as classmates.com.

I moved away from my childhood neighborhood in suburban Philadelphia soon after high school, and since then I’ve scarcely had contact with any of my classmates. Moving to Europe after college made the break even more complete.

Still, I’ve always been more curious about how my high school friends turned out than about what happened to people I knew in college.

Partly, I think, this is because we were all so unformed in high school. We weren’t quite blank slates, but we were utterly poised to go in any direction.

Richard ushered me in and introduced me to his wife of 30 years. Conveniently, she had a meeting to attend and left us to catch up. We did what one does in such reunions: First we adjusted visually to our middle-aged selves, adding and subtracting pounds, hair, wrinkles and other telltale signs of life experience, then we settled down to talk.

We filled each other in on the decades of our adulthood, and we reminisced about our teenage years.
Richard occasionally made a gesture that leaped so vividly across the decades that I almost saw the boy, not the man.

Then, as one does now, we logged on to Google; we spent several hours searching for our old friends. One had taken over his father’s company and became president of his synagogue. Several run their own businesses. One performs in a local rock band. One is a professor at New York University.

They live scattered across the United States and in more than one foreign country. A few, we knew, had passed away. Some, we were surprised to see, had no Web presence at all.

We took out the high school yearbook and there we all were: the boys in their white shirts and ties, the girls in their dark sweaters and pearls – yes, pearls.

It was the first time I had looked at the yearbook for a long time. We were the Class of ‘67, and we went to school in heady times – the Vietnam War, the civil rights movement, the Summer of Love – but amazingly, none of this was reflected in the book’s pictures or text.

What’s more, our high school graduation coincided almost exactly with the Six-Day War.

I kept a daily diary back then, and I pulled it out when I returned from Ohio to my home in Italy.
In my entries for that week, brief comments on the war are overshadowed by much more detailed news of final exams, graduation events, visits with friends and teenage romantic musings about boys named Dave and Greg.

“Well, chalk one up for the intelligence of the world – there is war in the Middle East,” I wrote on June 5. That day, according to my diary, there was a power blackout in parts of New Jersey, Delaware and Pennsylvania. When it was over, I reported, our principal came on the PA system to assure the school that it had had “nothing to do with the Middle East situation.”

The next day, after school, I spent hours watching on TV the U.N. Security Council debate on the crisis and the council’s vote on a cease-fire resolution.

“The Israelis made great advances, and the Arab losses [led to] the USSR agreement to cease-fire,” I wrote.

But that seems to have been my last comment on the situation.

June 10, the day the war ended, was a Saturday. I went to a music lesson and later that day, a friend gave me a present – “a pair of sandals and a groovy peasant-style embroidered skirt.”

I didn’t mention the cease-fire – but I still have the skirt.

Richard and I, and our classmates, are graying. And lasting, secure peace in the Middle East remains an elusive dream.

(Ruth Ellen Gruber’s books include “National Geographic Jewish Heritage Travel: A Guide to Eastern Europe,” “Letters from Europe (and Elsewhere), and “Virtually Jewish: Reinventing Jewish Culture in Europe.”

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Tuesday, September 2, 2008

Letter from Europe in Hadassah Magazine




Here is a link to my Letter from Europe about the European Day of Jewish Culture, in the current issue of Hadassah Magazine. (The picture above shows the ceremony in Ancona in 2005).

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Letter from Europe:
A Jewish Holiday for Everyone
By Ruth Ellen Gruber

Under the blaze of a hot noonday sun, a Hebrew prayer floated over a crowd of about 200 people gathered near the summit of a rocky cliff high above the Adriatic Sea at the ancient Italian port city of Ancona.

Spread around them were the remains of the city’s centuries-old Jewish cemetery, notable for its squat white tombstones shaped like truncated pillars, some fallen, some tilted over, some standing erect, their beautifully carved Hebrew inscriptions glinting in the sun.

Ancona’s mayor spoke a few words, and the chief rabbi emeritus of Milan, Giuseppe Laras, offered a benediction. Then the Libyan-born Jewish singer Miri am Megh nagi lifted her voice in a haunting Sefardic song.

The ceremony, in September 2005, marked the rededication of the cemetery after a massive restoration project that had stabilized the land, cleared it of brush and enabled it to be opened to the public. That event formed a centerpiece in Italy’s annual observance of the European Day of Jewish Culture, a continent-wide celebration of Jewish tradition that takes place each year on the first Sunday in September—this year on September 7.

Each culture day has a central theme. in 2005, it was cuisine, and after leaving the cem etery, dozens of people sampled specialties from the varied cultural components that make up Italian Jewry—Sefardic and Ashkenazic Jews, post-World War II immigrants from North Africa and the Middle East, and Italian Jews whose traditions date back to ancient Roman times. On the menu were baked anchovies with endive, fried eggplant in tomato sauce, fish balls made from salted cod and sweet fritters in honey sauce, all washed down with kosher Ital ian wine.

Now in its ninth year, the European Day of Jewish Culture is by far the most ambitious of a dizzying array of Jewish festivals that annually take place all over Europe.

Begun as a local initiative in the Alsace region of France, Culture Day went international in 1999 and is one of the only such manifestations with a cross-border character. This year the theme is music, and the roster encompasses as many as 800 separate, simultaneous events in 30 countries, from Norway and the United Kingdom to Spain and Italy.

With so much going on in so many places, Cul ture Day is targeted more at locals than tourists. Its aim is to enable the public at large to discover the historical heritage of Judaism and, in doing so, to combat anti-Jewish prejudice.

“Making physical access to places of Jewish interest easy is one way of showing the non-Jewish world that they live side by side with people who are ap proach able, accessible and want their culture to be understood,” said Jonathan Joseph, the London-based president of the European Council of Jewish Com munities. “We want our places of worship admired, just like other religions; we want our history to be understood; we want our relevance to the local cultural scene to be clear.”

Each year, synagogues, cemeteries, ritual baths, Jewish museums and other Jewish sites open to the public, and sem inars, exhibits, lectures, book fairs, art in stallations, concerts, performances, guided tours and more take place, many in localities where Jews no longer have a presence. Organizers estimate that last year’s events attracted as many as 200,000 people across Europe, most not Jewish.

In Norway, this year’s celebrations coincide with the opening of the Oslo Jewish Museum. Kicking off the four-day programming on September 6 will be “A Night of Klezmer Music,” with Scandinavian acts including Urban Tun nélls Klezmerband, Sabbath Hela Veckan and Channe Nuss baum & Klez merfobia.

Great Britain’s schedule encompasses three weeks of events, from open houses at dozens of synagogues throughout the country to walking tours of Jewish neighborhoods to concerts ranging from “Jewish Musicians from the East End” of London to the Liverpool Philharmonic performing George Gersh win’s “Rhapsody in Blue.”
Culture Day is loosely coordinated by the ECJC, B’nai B’rith Europe and the Red de Juderias de España, a Jewish tourism route linking 15 Spanish cities. On the ground, however, the operation is staffed by volunteers in each country—Jewish and non-Jewish alike. The level of participation in each country is determined by local interest, resources and capabilities.

Italy is one of the most enthusiastic participants. Last year, events in more than 55 towns and cities at tracted 50,000 people—about 15,000 more than the country’s entire Jewish population. This year, even more venues have been added.

“There is a very high level of interest here, more so than in many other countries,” said Sira Fatucci, national coordinator for Culture Day in Italy. This is partly due to Italy’s effective organization and successful pub licizing. Jew ish communities work closely with public and private institutions, and the event receives government support.

“And then, of course,” she added, “the Jewish patrimo ny in Italy encompasses a uniquely rich and varied ar ray of treasures, like nowhere else.”

These range from Roman-era sites such as the Jew ish catacombs in Rome and the synagogue ruins at Ostia An tica to the med ieval mikve in Siracusa to opulent Baroque synagogues in the Piedmont region to the historic ghetto and centuries-old cemetery in Venice.

But in other countries, the story is different. Given funding and logistics problems, only a few token Culture Day events take place elsewhere, while in some areas, the one-day-a-year mo d el has been outpaced by other local initiatives.

“You can’t offer the same things every year,” said Maros Borsky, who heads a Jewish research center in Bratislava, the Slovak capital. “Fewer people are coming, and some museums, for ex­ample, are reluctant to get involved—they don’t want to open without charging an entrance fee. In a lot of places, people are organizing local days of Jewish culture and other events on their own.”

The norwegian jewish singer Bente Kahan said her own per­formance schedule is so extensive that Cul ture Day has little special relevance. Based in Wroclaw, Poland, Kahan heads a foundation there to re store the city’s historic synagogue and teach residents about Jewish heritage and tradition as well as the Holo­caust.

“My way of teaching is through music and performance,” Kahan said. “We will probably have a concert on the European Day of Jewish Culture, but in fact we do things all the time... school performances in the fall, films in the summer, concerts.”

Teaching a non-Jewish public about Jewish heritage is a way to instill a con nection to emerging issues of identity and history. “We are living in symbiosis,” she said.

Against this background, Culture Day coordinators are refocusing their priorities. They are concerned that the novelty of the day may be waning, with Jewish culture becoming just one of numerous heritages competing for attention—and funding.

“None of us could have predicted that the program would spread so far,” said Assumpcio Hosta, secretary general of the Red de Juderias. “Can it keep expanding? I don’t think so.”

“In general, I wish the day of ‘Jewish culture’ would instead focus on ‘Jewish life,’” said Italian musicologist Francesco Spagnolo, who is scheduled to give talks on this year’s theme in Florence, Padua and Livor no.

“I hope that by focusing on music this time, the European Day of Jew ish Culture will contribute to painting a clearer picture of cultural ex changes between Jews and non-Jews,” said Spagnolo, who currently heads research at the Judah L. Magnes Museum in Berkeley, California. “Hopefully, this will go beyond the usual stereotypes: celebrating the culture of ‘dead Jews’ versus being hostile to actual Jews, includ ing Israel and the Israelis.”

Samuel D. Gruber—Syracuse, New York-based president of the Inter na tional Survey of Jewish Mon u ments—agrees that Culture Day in its present form may have run its course. But, he said, over the years it has served an important purpose and be come a stimulus for related endeavors.

“People use Culture Day to reassess the local angle and the grass-roots potential,” he said. “Jewish heritage is becoming part of the local con stel la tion of monuments to visit—not be cause they are Jewish, but be cause they are part of the local heritage. Americans tend to know Prague, Krakow, Budapest, but there’s a wealth of other fascinating Jewish places out there.”

(Gruber, who is the author’s brother, posts updates on synagogue resto rations, cemetery clean-ups, mu seum openings and Jew ish cul tural events on his organization’s Web site.)

In 2006, as part of their attempt to revamp Culture Day’s focus, or­gan iz ers created the Eu ropean As sociation for the Preser va tion and Promotion of Jewish Culture and Heritage.

Its stated aim is to break out of the one-day-only model and use the ex perience of the past nine years to expand into more deeply grounded proj ects that could maintain momentum and have a year-round impact.

These include an ambitious, transborder European Route of Jewish Her i tage aimed at forming Jewish itineraries that will link the countries that to date have participated in the Euro pean Day of Jewish Culture. This project, however, has yet to gain much trac­tion, despite being recognized in 2005 by the Council of Europe as a Major Cultural Route.

“What we are trying to do is to co ordinate activities of the individual countries involved,” said Hosta. “The AEJP wants to offer a platform to en courage contacts among them, promote the national routes, publicize their experiences and enable the various people involved to learn from one another.”

In fact, several regional Jewish her itage routes already exist, at least as concepts or suggested itineraries.

The most notable—and successful—is the Red de Juderias in Spain, with recommended stops in Avila, Barcelona, Tudela and 12 additional towns. Others include a Hasidic route that will encompass more than a score of towns in southeastern Poland, including Chelm, Jaroslaw and Lesko, currently being formulated by the Warsaw-based Foundation for the Preservation of Polish Jewish Heritage.

In Bratislava, Borsky says that a European Route of Jewish Heritage has potential. City officials, he believes, would be more willing to support an endeavor open to tourists year round than a one-day festival for locals.

Meanwhile, Borsky is working lo cally to create a Slovak Jewish Her i tage Route. To date, it includes synagogues in Bratislava and six other towns, along with several branches of the state-run Jewish Museum and the unique, subterranean burial complex in Bratislava where the influential 19th- century sage Rabbi Moshe Schreiber, known as the Chatam Sofer, is buried.

Borsky has placed plaques at these sites; he has printed illustrated brochures and is promoting them on his Web site, which also includes an expanding database of Jewish heritage. He is also preparing educational programs for schools.

As an architectural historian and active member of the city’s tiny Jewish community, he feels it a “moral duty” to protect and promote Jewish heritage in his country.

“Synagogues are part of townscapes,” he said. “If they are restored, they will add to the quality of life for local residents.

“Jewish heritage,” Borsky continued, “is not something we are keeping just for ourselves now; we save it for fu ture generations who might much more appreciate both these buildings and the complexity of these towns.”

Ruth Ellen Gruber is an American writer living in Europe. Her books include Jewish Heritage Travel: A Guide to Eastern Europe (National Geographic).

Web Resources
- Bente Kahan Foundation: www.fbk.org.pl
- European Day of Jewish Culture: www.jewisheritage.org
- Foundation for the Preservation of Polish Jewish Heritage: www.fodz.pl
- International Survey of Jewish Monuments: www.isjm.org
- Jewish Heritage in Europe: www.jewish-heritage-europe.eu
- Oslo Jewish Museum: www.jodiskmuseumoslo.com
- Red de Juderias de España: www.redjuderias.org
- Slovak Jewish Heritage: www.slovak-jewish-heritage.org